Do you not have the pink/purple relay? it'll be mounted on a bracket with those other relays behind the dash.

You haven't posted any pictures up yet so no one can help if you don't know what you're looking for.

I know you mention you dont have them, But the location pictured above isn't where they are, have you looked up, or remoed the dash to find them. I find it hard that the wiring has all been ripped out.....