I am just about to tackle a similar problem on my Escort. I think it's missing 2 white relay's and a Blue one on the fuse board.

I have offside main beam coming on when side lights are turned on, when I turn ignition on everything works fine. I have no dim dip only sidelights, dipped beam and main beam.

I have checked picture's on google and found a few different arrangements of relay's in the fuse box