I have been on the phone today with Emerald today and they said the timing in the map cant be wrong.

they also said the same thing about the coil wires from the ECU maybe mixed up i.e. driver 1 wire from the ECU wired to driver 3 of the coil pack, makes sense.

I have already carried out a conductivity test of the wire all was good, but I didn't check which cylinder was sparking . so ill have to check that, if it still doesn't work I think ill be shipped off to the funny farm.