Okay so the starter is now fixed.

On the brakes we jacked up each wheel and couldn't find any play or hear any noise to give us a clue to what bearing is faulty.
But when I drive there is a loud and distinct rotational rubbing noise.

Also on the brakes I was advised it was air in the lines despite my pressure bleeding, he said it may be stuck in the abs pump, so he took my car on a loose surface and was hitting the brakes hard and he claims that will push air out of the abs pump when the abs system starts working hard?
i was advised that I should now pressure bleed it again to remove what air has moved from the pump to the lines.
The brakes are better than they were when I started the thread but still not great and the horrible bearing noise is still there.
I'm baffled on it.