Finally found the relays. They are all behind the fuse box. The user manual only numbers the fuses 1-22 but the relays are not numbered. There are about 6 or more ralays. i can't find anywhere that tells me which is which and the spare parts shop wants a sample. what to do.... i'll take a wild guess and say the red one is the one because that's how i feel. anyone that has the answer, please share with me.
thanks.