i loved my 4x4, gutted when i had to sell it, but as said unless you can do the work yourself, you'll end up spending more than the cars worth!
not sure whats going on with the clutch, i used a lucas kit and fitted a 1.8td to a mates and both were fine. check that mr clutch are putting a full kit in not just the clutch plate.
also mate word of friendly advice, using punctuation makes reading your posts easier