personally i would look at getting a different motherboard, either that or looking at further upgrade options to 1155 socket. if your having that much of an issue with upgrading ram it might be worth looking.
eg ..
http://www.novatech.co.uk/products/m...bb-8504ga.html
http://www.novatech.co.uk/products/m...bb-32204g.html

just ad to your existing case ,save everything to a memory stick you need, fresh install of windows, and off you go