I only get one reading on the drivers side so i guess this is for the flash/main beam as the lights still flash but don't get get anything else

Well the main plugs that goes into the headlights are different for some reason. One has 5 pins (drivers side) and one has 4 (pass side).
They havnt been changed so must be made like this for some reason.

I have changed the light but no luck.

I will try my other stalk and check rear earth aswell tomorrow. I have to check what im getting at the multi plug at the stalk to see if theres power getting to the stalk.

I suspect its a relay or the plug as they worked (apart from dipped) until i took the light out and had a look then i lost on the drivers side