just bought the car, and the remote doesnt work with radio, had radio out and it appears the middle connector isnt there? been a taxi previously (very tidy n only 129000miles, 10 yrs old)loads of red wires etc spliced into other wires, but still middle connector not there, its a 6000 radio..... also only got 1 key (remote, all working) but want a spare, but the 1 i have is very worn and they cant get a cut off it, how do i go about finding the code please, other than going to ford? there must be a way???!?!?!!!! thanks