Dave,
I have a Clifford Intelligaurd 950 on my car, has all of what you asked for and more, including Black Jaxx. It wasn't cheap but it has all the toys and has never played up in the time I have had it. The car has sat on my drive now for about 4 weeks and I haven't heard anything from it except when someone got too close.
The guy that fitted the alarm is the nuts, I have his number if you want it, Email me or something cos I am not here alot anymore. I am sure he would fit it, and I trust him, and even more so, Damo does.
http://www.caralarmuk.com/acatalog/Car_Alarms.html
See here for an idea ^^^
Spadge - I have remote start, and it works fine. There are settings you can change with the Net Wizard so it can work on a manual car.
Smit - Correct, you can't issue yourself a CAT1 Certificate unless your are a proper fitter, But Dave hasn't got a CAT1 Alarm...