No, what im saying is - if im doing a favour for family (i've done em loads in the past) then they know it's a favour & dont bug me about how fast i complete it. They know i'll do it & i'll get it done ASAP but they dont expect me to take time out of my busy schedule to get it done. So if im gonna offer to do a favour i make sure i've got the time to do it in the 1st place.