So it took me something like 2 days to find out that taking the turbo off alone is a bad idea and the manifold is REALLY easy to take off, It took me less than an hour to remove as 5-8 of the bolts were lose...
The gaskets on the manifold are i think fucked as two are spilt into two bits now.
I have broke 3 spanners and smashed some glass bent a ratchet (so it broke the glass)
How it looks now
The red is the one that i just could not get to as every spanner is to big.
The blue one would have made like easy but the bolt is now round... so a spanner wont work
Thanks for all your help guys
Many Thanks Eigdoog.