Simon, I dont want to see this thread dragged off topic discussing the details of it, Im just trying to help stu out with an example of the sort of thing I mean, when I am suggestion that "moderator moderation" is what this site requires.

Its fine to have rules, but they should be applied fairly and with some thought.
It will improve relations between members and mods if this sort of thing can stop happening, and it will probably cut down on moderator time required as well.