Originally Posted by
CossieRich
Im sure a lot of us may well be in the same boat but cant or wont leave because of the children. Surely you found a coping mechanism to deal with the torture of leaving your kids behind. What was it?
theres no coping mechanism as such, you just get on with it .
i have a whole new life now, new house in a new town, a new job and a new mrs fuzzy on the go. its amazing how things can change so much in such a short time but nothing comes between me getting my kids twice a week.
im in a far better place now a the time spent with the kids is far more appreciatted and more of an event than when i lived there. the bonus is i no longer have to look at the miserable twisted face of my bitter bitter arse of an ex.
now i look back and think why the fuck didnt i leave sooner.