great news that all 3 are doing fine now, not a good start, but hospitals are very busy places and at times they just don't have enough bodies to go round and you can feel helpless and I do know how you feel, my son who is 10 at christmas was born 15 weeks premature weighing only 2.0 lbs, after a long fight for life he made it, the staff at the hospital were fantastic while he was in there and there dedication in the first few weeks without a doubt saved his life..
steve