You are looking for an answer to take your mate back from the woman who's stolen him from you, either be ause he's your mate and you want what's best, out of pity for him because all his other mates have cunted him off or out of spite because you think you know what's best for him.

Go and say sorry for getting all shouty with him and just tell him that if you want to meet up then it's fine. Don't for e yourself back into the situation and just be polite about it. If he fucks up he at least knows that you will be there for him and not across the street pointing and laughing.

Mate of mine got involved with this girl and she totally had him under her thumb, he had to ask her permission to go out, always on the phone to her etc and eventually we understood that that's what he wanted and he was happy to be at her beck and call so when he was allowed out we made the most of if. Sadly he passed away and she sort of turned back into the bitch that we all remembered she was, but there's no point in dwelling on the past as we remembered the good times we had.

Don't dwell on the negativity and just accept that things are the way they are and get on with you own life