lol Gareth i don't have trouble socialising but believe it or not i do have trouble with the whole profile thing as communication via text shows no body language etc so i don't wanna come across as some arogant cocky twat but then i don't wanna come across as shy as i'm not lol

It's a fine line then there is the whole message caper would be far better if there was a site with a live chat a bit like msn would save been ignored etc lol