thanks for the input guys, im off to see the council tomorrow to talk things through with them, and iv spoke to a few other people about this situation, its nice the work has finally been done but its a compelty horrible feeling coming home and seeing stuff moved and things, even more so in my bedroom. i found out from her there was her, her husband their son and a work man all in the house, its my personal space, i have personal letters in a folder on the table, my ironing out. Its horrible.
iv told her on the phone no one is to enter the house, with out my verbal permission. But i will be putting this in writing aswell. Shes also rang now as she wants to arrange a meeting next week to discuss the future of my tentacy.