Drink driving,young lad needs some advice.
Hi all,my sprayer came in today practically in tears as he's been caught drink driving,he's only 19.
He's been seeing some slag from up the road,25,divorced with 2 kids,no job but a high sex drive,so of course he's been loving it,her own place and she does all sorts.she's been a proper head fuck to him,rubbing stuff in his face(not the way your thinking!!),asking him to move in,telling him what he wants to hear,getting the kids to call him daddy etc,you know the score!!
He took her 40 miles up the road on the weekend for her to go to a rave on her own(????),he reckons she was proper slutted up as well.he dropped her off and phoned her to check she's ok(bit insecure) and she tells him she's going somewhere else with a girl she's just met(????).
His head goes and he drives off to a mates.one too many at 5am he decides to drive to her house(stupid boy I know),gets there and it's party time,boys he's never seen,she's off it by the sounds of things,creating,fucking his head up again.they argue,he boots her laptop and jumps in the car,drives about 1/2 a mile down the road past the cops who are on their way to her house as she's known to them.he pulls over on his own and phones her,copper answers and tells him to come back to the house as his ex told them he'd smashed the laptop and drove off pissed. Naively he goes back and tells the copper everything,gets arrested etc,night in cells,charged with dd,he blew 64,limit is 35 iirc?
Now,normally I wouldn't get involved as i'd say stupid boy etc but this is SO out of character for him it's untrue,he's an exceptional lad who'd be an asset to anyone,he works like fuck and is really good at his job.he's never been any trouble to anyone and comes from a very hard working family.
Iv'e written a detailed letter explaining the importance of him retaining his license but I'm not stupid and realise a ban is inevitable,what I'm wondering is,how long can he expect.the cops reckoned 12 months but maybe less although one other person told me a minimum of 18 months then another no more than 6?any help greatly appreciated.