Hi
Perfectly normal thinking when i first got married kids were the furthest thing from my mind, Large houses, fast cars & wealth were all that mattered. Both mine were not planned but they changed everything, still had the fast cars but my house became a home not an investment & money will be used for their future.

You need to think longer term all you younger people dont think of being in your 60's 70's 80's 90's this is the time that you actually need to have children around you. I think of the last 10 years of my Mums life without her chidren to offer support it would have been hell. We are now offering that support to Annies dad.