thanks for the replies, ill lok into something else then. but would not recommend the head unit version, even through data cable its crap, and at over £200 notes could have got a cheap head unit with a aux in socket instead.
so cqa anyone recommend a good head unit to play music off the iphone and a good hand free kit for iphone, as me and other half spend 12 hours plus our vans so I would have to get 2 of them so dont want to be spending too much