can i ask do you have kids mike ????

would make sence if you said no !!

its easy to point the finger after the event ,but i can say that on the day of the snatching
jamie was lured away from his mother as he was waiting for her in the shop doorway ...
yes she should have been more carefull etc etc ,but to blame her totally like you did if im honest is wrong !!
yes it was a huge mistake on her part ,but if you have kids then you can understand a little as he hated the shop[ and would always wait in the doorway for his mum to finish