Shit like this happens everyday to 'normal' people, I think it's been blown out of proportion because of who they are. Should you shag a mates lass ?, no you shouldn't, but on the other hand, should that stop a man representing his country in the biggest sporting event on the planet ?, no it shouldn't. It's an honour to represent your country at anything. So the top and bottom of it IMO, bridge should play for England if selected, and John Terry is a man, every bloke has been tempted at least once, regardless of how much you love your wife/girlfreind. As Oscar Wilde said 'the only way to get rid of temptation is to yeild to it'