My wife had a stroke at 26 she then had another at 27 she now has a form of epilepsy where she only fits when she sleeps,a binine brain tumor, possible cancer of the limph clands she is also being checked for breast cancer and now we find a lump in her calf.as well still having resricted use of her left hand side.she is only 31, All you can do is just remember you are not alone and there is always some one suffering more,you need to look at the possitive thinge in your life such as children if you have any as every minuite with them is a precious memory the will tresure for the rest of their lives.we have 3 and it is hard for them and us.we wish you all the best and we do understand.ian