Originally Posted by M Brian
how many follow ups have you had like that ste?
Almost 100% as thats how i act when cracking on (ie confient cocky wanker, p.i.m.p. wannabee
) so its no suprise to em, if i got there in first place then itl carry on.
Even if you not as blatant as that it pays to look "quite" confident as if they think they got the uppper hand they eiother not bother (as they think they better than you) or theyl play you, and thats what YOU should be doing to them.
Originally Posted by M Brian
i shit out with texts and stuff next day...
No, dont, test the water with a text, but never ber shy with a call afdter, look confident but dont look desperate (ie if they dont seem to care, dont bother, thats why u got to make em care!)
Originally Posted by M Brian
well actually its usually... get number.... text them when i get in still pissed.... doh!
Nooooooooo! Few reasons not to...
Too soon makes you look desperate, and when pissed up you cant think about it so well either.
I dont take anyone home 1str nite if i cant help it for similar reason, bit of jake down you might give you confidence, but as you got time afterwards, as long as you not some crazy nervous dude, youl do the final job better afterwards.
Originally Posted by M Brian
either that or my mates will of told them afterwards that say i was only 19 and already have 4 children buy 3 different mothers and the council have just evicted me!! cooonts!! or the old favourite... he has a girlfriend he's been with her for years.. he always does this he's such a lad!!! bastids bastid bastids and they wonder why you toddle round on your own.!
FUCK mates like that
Few of my mates, esp Wils, make me look shit in the bird skils but we ALL have an understanding and mutual respect, all HELP each other and respect each other, not fuck it up, thats just pathetic jelously.
Plenty of times mates pulled a piece other ones of us blatantly wanted, but unles they blatantly stole em off us, you just gotta respect em for having the skill
Originally Posted by M Brian
not sure on the confidence texts as they may just think cooont and ignore which i a total coont thing they do! as you cant gauge anything...
not too put pressure on... but its all in the first contact!!
Thats thing, i do the "nice but cocky coont" thing from the start, got to make em think THEY the lucky one. So it not like u suddenly changing.
But if u not so bad, still look like u on top of this relationship IMO.
Good luck Stu mate