SEE! I told you getting rid of that hair will sort it out
You a sound lad, just needed to look like you in the 21st century, not 1975
IMO you wanna slide her a txt giving it all the confidence, yannow "Hey girl its Stu, glad we hooked up last nite, u too fyne not to see you again, what you up to 2moz nite?" or whatever (jus with a lil more smoothness as im fucked, but NO less confidence), and if you feeling a bit brave (as being some shy stuttering coont aint gonna get you owt but fired on) give her a bell to try n get the hook up, but IMO a text is best 1st move to test the water incase its not going nowhere...
Honest to god mate, GAME (ie the way you talk and act to a ho) is 80% of getting birds, if they belive they lucky to have you, and if when u with em you make them look like the lucky one, you in there like swimwear.
Can be the best looking geezer in the world, but if they got no game, an if they cant hit it properly, then their birds get robbed (as long as you dont look like sloth off the goonies

) , and you halfway there dude, so give it loads
Good luck matey, know you been thru a lot of shit and u deserve some good stuff