some one did tell me to check weather i can hear a slight noise from under the car of the fuel pump... so put the ignition on and i thought i heard the noise but tried it again and nothing....????
The fuel pump will only sound once - as once pressure is built up it will stop, until you get the fuel flowing again, so IMO i would think the fuel pump / relay is ok.
It could be loadsa things such as:
Cold start valve problems
Too low mixture
Dump valve (if you have one?) or air leak issues
No spark
Have you taken the plugs out ? Do they smell of petrol after trying to turn it over? Are you getting a spark when trying to fire a plug against the block?