to be fair i never brake or fuck all when someone comes at me head on in lorry,the one time i did take avoiding action was when a woman with kids anchored up in front of me,theres no way i was going to hit that car,it was a grass verge and a garden wall that got it
i think your experience as a bus driver helped you there,most women would have paniced,i however would have royally lost my rag,and prob gave chase,sure the lorry driver didnt get the plate?