Kelv... You have pm
Did your pals definitely stop and get out for a drink?... We have the odd instance where someone will drive in, get the impression not a lot's going on (due to people having a drink inside, a few cars off the road, car park busy so a few spread out etc etc) and just drive off without parking up to investigate, thus not giving anyone who does see them much of a chance to catch them. If they did get out and make the effort to make themselves seen I would normally be 99% sure they would be approached and welcomed; we have a lot of very nice amenable guys and girls in the group... so if that wasn't the case, I can only apologise and ask that they try again and see how approachable we all are...