yea if she has kids walk away they have potential to steal the food that she leaves in your fridge , then politely tell her she need to loose some weight and feed her on water, but be careful how you say it cos it's the hardest part of the operation one false move and it'll be like a bomb going off as she slaps your face with her big fat hand and walks out, the food fairy will leave with her , hope you all the best with your conquest