Right as many know I split from my fiance back in May, now I know she had been messing about behind my back and always suspected who it was but was always talked out of doing something.

Thursday evening I found out from a mate who married her sister that IT and the guy I suspected (Gary Fairhurst) are now dating. Despite the time that has passed it still hit me like a ton of bricks. Despite my mates best efforts to defuse things with me that evening it sat badly with me and I didn't sleep.

Friday morning I got up and drove to the office she works at with the other bloke and proceeded to write "CHEAT", "LIAR" and "BITCH" over all the windows of her car with a chalk pen.

A result of this was I got arrested 4 hours later for causing criminal damage.

Now I thought my payback was extremely mild and even the police involved were extremely sympathetic and one even shook my hand and congratulated me on my work and said I should have smashed the windows instead. But a couple of people have said I was really out of order for doing it (yet one of these people hailed a woman who smashed up her cheating husbands car and threw paint all over th einside as being a heroine). 10 years together, a mortagage and an engagement destroyed I thought I was pretty fair considering the blind rage I was in.

So I am interested to know if anybody else thought my actions wereover the top?

I don't want a load of abuse or an arguement to start here just interested in peoples views

Just to add my intention was never to damage the car only cause them both embarrasment.