Originally Posted by Mk1-stu

I agree.

ultimately though, you will do what you want to do, no matter what any of the replies in this thread say !!

One thing i will say is this.. If she phones / texts you or whatever telling you that he's being an arsehole again - don't go running or you'll end up her bitch. She chose to take him back so it's something she'll have to deal with. You either didn't make it clear to her in the first place that you were seriously interested in her, or she was just up for a bit of fun and you filled in the gap.