my mate tried selling the car and would of paid the finance off but fook me he is hopeless,i have paid finance off on cars that the owner isn't even in difficulty with, its not rocket science.
whats the car worth trade ?? whats it worth retail ??? whats it worth private sale???and how much do you owe ??? you may be able to do a deal getting the car sold that helps you. a finance company will only sell your car to claw back bunse so why can't you do it eh???

sticking your head up your arse will not help in the long run.

best of luck