mate you have done the worst thing by going to her.you have to stop yourself going down.i swear i had to sleep with my head under the pillow for 2 nights as i couldnt take it.a t shirt with your smell on it.a teddy etc.i left a small downlight on also and the radio on softly.its so hard as there crying is heartbrakin.now all i hear is snoring as he sleeps at the bottom of my bed