Well none of the connectors match up properly, I seem to have 9 wires coming from the door (3 connectors with 2 wires each, and one round one with 3 wires), and 6 on the car loom (4 on one connector and 2 on a round connector). Only the round connector is the same on both sides but the door end has 3 wires on that bit and the car loom has 2

, plus the colours are different so nothing is an obvious match.