Has your flywheel failed completely or just very noisy.

Mine is very rattly when in neutral with my foot off the clutch. I was told by ford 'they all do that sir' and that even if i replace it, the noise will be back within a couple of hundred miles. Don't fancy a solid one either as i am told these are just as noisy?

My car is an 03 with about 70k on the clock. Any suggestions?

Thanks
Graham