Ok I'm in fault finding mode and found a few things i'd like to query!
The relays in the first pic (grey and black) don't make "clicking" sound when you turn the ignition on, so that's my first problem.
Also, there seems to be one missing in the second pic, it's a lilac/purple colour.





In this pic you can see all the other relays, but at the back wrapped in black tape is a connector for a relay that isn't there...