done the rest by switching it off and powered off for 10 minutes and the picture and recording returend but they were missing a frame per shot, if you know what i mean, very jerky and choppy pictures
so then i did the reset with the button pressed, and it took about 10 minutes, boy that was a bitch holding that button down
these seems to have worked so fingers crossed
i await my new card in the next few months to see if that will also cause a problem
thanks for teh help guys

appreciate it a lot