is that a bit of "under the fumb treament"

You have to have these women trained for crying out load........... God I been with eric 10 yrs gone valentines day and I only had 3 mothers day cards and thats cos i told the kid's teacher to make sure they made me one!!!!!! I bought me own the first yr. He once gave me a tenna outside the petrol garage and said "here flower, go and get yourself a card and a box of chocs" it was MY FOOKING BIRTHDAY FFS! You could always buy her an RS or ST for mothers day??? lol