As title says really, Let say hypothetically you are thinking about doing something, would you want your friends, relatives or who ever it is, to be supportive meaning they would tell you thinks like "go for it" even if they don't mean it, or be honest and tell you "That's the stupidest idea ever".

It could be about anything... I'm asking this cuase a lot of the time people tell me that i tend to not be supportive and tell things how they are.

So what's your way ?