WTF!? Why does she have to speak to him pre interview? Its her life, her decision. End of.
OP may consider her choice of career to be a deal breaker for the relationship but thats his choice.
Do you guys always ask your wifes permission before you do something?

I would be fine with it so long as some clear rules were laid out about whats ok and what isnt. Thank your lucky starts bloke want to see her without clothes on - Im sure some here have wives that the rest of us would pay to keep their clothes on!

Good luck whatever happens - and if she gets the job, get a group trip arranged so we can come and see what you get to ride