as a seller i will always give the option of paying by paypal and charge the 4% , i also give other options as well such as cheque for those who wont pay the charge. Why should i pay for a charge for recieving money, paypal is run by ebay and ebay charge a lot of money anyway so give the crap that they have to pay to run it cause its all the same company!!
I also love the people who email you saying 'what you are doing is against ebay rules'.....................care
also , the 4% amounts to quite a bit when you are accepting £1000's plus the selling fees , then you got the people who dispute the postage as well the little
rant over