the DIY kits are never going to give a finish anywhere close to a genuinely flocked item, as it needs the electric charge to get the flock to stand correctly
if u look at a flocked dash that has had some of the flock flattened by impact or wear, it stands out like a sore thumb, the company that did my dash 1st time n made an ass of it left flattened patches all over the shop, i would say that alone looked shit, but the rest wernt much cop either lol