thats great, they don't mention anything in the haynes manual about the location!!
i found the panel (bloody akward thing!!) and there's two relays, do you know what the other ones for? i presume i've got the correct one, its grey, as there was a pink/yellow wire coming from the windscreen and there was a pink/yellow on the connector to the relay and not on the other green one. is there a fuse that protects this circuit other than the one in the aux fuse box on the battery?? its just when i press the heated windscreen switch it doesnt light and wondered would the relay stop this. there's no mention of a fuse going through the fusebox list.
the grey relay which i think it is has the code C8F6A, 95AG14512 AA, >PBTP-GF30<
can these be bought from motor factors or is it only avaliable from ford??
thanks for your help!!!