ok thanks all for that. A dropped kerb is one way round it, I have looked into it, the council will do the legal side for free as long as i use one of their recommended builders, which must have insurance for 2million, so that isn't gonna be cheap. To the right of the red area is some small bushes and the pavement, no reason why the dropped kerb couldnt go in there i suppose. I will look into it more!!

Or i could just park my car right outside her front window on the road, fook all she could do about it then

I will get a piccy later just to show it a bit more clearly!

Thanks all