i looked at the settings and it says "wired and wireless" so i choose the wireless option and all this stuff came up, which confused me after a while because nothing i would do would make it work

(that racedriver grid game also has this habit of letting you choose options, and then not letting you get out of that part of the game so you have to turn the whole thing on and off again, most annoying)

and as i don't have a lead long enough i was forced to give up and admit defeat, momentarily, until i asked here

when i'm in front of a computer again, probably tomorrow evening, i'll ask again (the mrs wants me to go out tonight so no can do with the ps3 business )