but other peoples kids? thats the issue,bathe naked ,sleep or whatever with your own kids but someone elses? . you dont consider anything slightly odd about a grown man, a total stranger, sleeping with someone elses child? what happens on a daily basis in todays society proves that that isnt a situation many adults would consider a sensible option for their child.me being one of them. if any grown man asked to sleep with my children i know how that would end whether some consider that judgemental conclusion jumping or not.my job is to protect my children at all costs and not pander to any benefit of the doubt wooly beliefs .