Ok.. have a new phone.... (loooooooong fuckin story)!!!!!!!!

NEO has hit the nail on the head.. I restored all the settings back in to the phone from the back up thing,and EXACTLEY the same problem!!!! i did a master reset,reinstalled just contacts,and now its working like a dream!!!!

Only pron i have now is,it wont let me update the fuckin firm ware!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pete...