this is what i meant when i said he had me by the balls

the ebay dispute i opened was not me disputing the buyer, it was actually so we could both choose the option of agreeing not to complete our ebay transaction[so i could get my £20 ebay fee back], but as it happens the buyer decided to choose the option of completing our transaction instead, the cunt!, you're only supposed to choose that option if you still want the tyres, which he doesnt. So the dispute is closed now and i cant open another or claim back the £20.


i may just give him one last chance to take up my offer of a full refund including postage and i'll pay a courier to pick upthe tyres from him. If he doesnt agree i'll do a runner and shut down my ebay/paypal account and tell him to f**k off.

yeah i'm a soft bastard but i have no choice because at the minute he still has the tyres and all i have is a shody paypal payment, you know how notorious credit card companies are when it comes to reversing paypal payments.