Okay - here is mine: I am single at the moment and have joined match for fun. Had plenty good dates and enjoyed it so far. Check this out.



I Had started chatting to a fitness instructor called Gem on match. Getting on really well. Quite a few e-mails every night back n fwd all lengthy and good random chat about stuff. She was actually first to write to me after I *winked* at her on match.

This started on Wednesday. During one of my e-mails I left my telephone number at the bottom. She didn't come back immediately with her own but she did e-mail like normal, then she texted me one night giving me her phone number, saying she had gone offline to go to bed. I then asked if she would like to meet for dinner or a drink as I was free on Friday. (chat had been really varied and good and we had quite a bit in common) She said she was busy but would love to another night if I was up for it. I said how about Sunday or some other time the following week. Let me know what suits She said Sunday would be great. I said I would pick her up at 6pm on Sunday at her place in Livingston and asked if she would like to pick where we had dinner or should I dazzle her (lol). She said I should pick somewhere, so I picked the living room in Edinburgh, table for 2 at 8pm.

Went round to pick her up, made a good effort to look smart (not over dressed mind u, just
jeans shoes n short sleeved black shirt but had made a good effort), m3 immaculate inside and out. Met her, she was very pretty, much better than the photos. Got in the
car (she lives about 20 mins from Edinburgh) cruise in nice n slowly, I complimented her on looking very good.

Chatting away about every random thing under the sun. Match, work, cars,
whatever really. Nothing very controversial. Got into Edinburgh, driving down George Street, dinner was booked for 8pm so we decided to go for drinks first. I asked where she would like to go and she said she usually like Le Monde but because we are going to the Living Room we should go into tiger lily. Went into Tiger Lily and I was pleasantly surprised that it was a nice place. I said I hadn't been in here before but because a mates girlfriend really likes it I knew it would be a classy place. I asked if she would like to get a drink first or find a seat and then get a drink. She said, lets go to the bar first. I asked what she would like, Glass of Rosie wine, I ordered an OJ no ice cos I was driving. Got the drinks and went to find a seat. I asked which seat she would like, (one was brightly lit the other wasn't so I just asked out of curtesy) she chose one side, sat down for all of 2 seconds then excused herself to the toilet. (So, so far I have treated her like a lady, loads of stories and laughs in the journey in, nothing tense or risky, tho I did ask what she would have done if I had "winked" at her friend on match too )

So, she had headed off to the toilet, as soon as we got to the seats 5 mins went by and I saw her walk from the toilets direction outside on her phone, presuming she was calling a mate to tell her that she was safe etc as there was no signal in that bar. After meeting a guy from the net etc. Few more mins passed and the penny dropped. She never ever returned. Simple as that.

Never returned.... I didn't have my phone so I asked the three nice girls on my left if they could look after the drinks whilst I nipped to the car to get my phone. I called and it rang once and she dingied by cutting me off. I then wrote a very confused by polite text asking if she had walked off and if she had, let me know, and im cool with that cos these things don't work out!. She ignored my text. I even asked in the text to let me know she was safe. Never heard a peep since!!! weird cos we were sharing texts and emails fine and even if she didn't dig me when she met me, I thought at least she would have texted back making some excuse up but no - she didn't and my text to ask her what was up was so open and understanding that she had bailed. I just wanted to know why, mainly to be able to finish this story for everyone. This is kinda like reading a book and then finding its missing the final chapter lol



Anyway I got chatting to the 3 girls next to me who took my number to
give to one of their hot single mates haha... weird... weirdest
thing that ever happened to me... anyone got a clue what the fvck?

Some background info. She had been in that pub the night before at a hen do. She chose that pub to go to. She had just joined match...

I was hoping she would just text back " your a complete cock - honestly get a hold of urself " cos that would have been much funnier than managing to scare her off in 20 mins of driving through in the M3. Before anyone says it, i did the speed limit the whole fucking way!!! We were practically sailing rather than driving along.. no more than 75 on the m'way at all And just before we went into the bar she was telling me one story we were laughing and so on...

legend eh

RW